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	The last night / Kelli (sister) Sometime between 5 pm on September 24 and 10 am on the 25th, Ryan decided that he could no longer bare this life. He could no longer endure the constant pain that was constantly in his mind. Of course what he was thinking is completely specualtion, we will never know exactly what was going through his mind at the time. I think maybe he just missed Josh so much, and had so much guilt over his death even though there was nothing he could have done to save him, Much like we are all feeling now. I may not know what he was thinking, but I am fairly sure what he wasn't thinking, I don't think he was thinking how much this would hurt those who loved him, Because I know Ryan would never do anything to purposely hurt anyone, especially Mom and Brooklynn.

	A Tribute to Survivors... / Tina Dore (Eugene Bungay Site) ((Another Survivor) ) Read >>
	A Tribute to Survivors... / Tina Dore (Eugene Bungay Site) ((Another Survivor) ) Today is My Love, My Angel Gene's 2 month anniversary in Heaven. I wrote this poem for us, the survivors and thought I would share it with you and your family. Ryan may you forever rest in peace and watch over your family & friends. A Tribute to Survivors... By Tina M. Dore Written: 12/12/05 we are survivors that is all we know we must stand together and not alone we must carry on our loved one name we must not sit back and take the blame we can not blame ourselves for the choice they made Although we wish they would have stayed life is full of pain & suffering by far we can only imagine there anguish who they thought they are they couldn't see the love and a better way they felt they needed to end their life this way they needed to take control of their painful life they needed to feel peace wanted to get rid of all the strife so now we are here left to grieve left to feel only what we believe so many questions that will remain unanswered to us the only thing we can do with others is discuss discuss the sadness, the pain and the fears we cling to each other and dry each others tears so we are now the survivors a new group of friends we are the survivors we didn't ask to set these trends we are the survivors and must learn to carry on we are the survivors we each need to depend on our lives have been forever changed our time with our loved one has been shortchanged so take this message and know in your heart that your loved one is an angel and has made a new peaceful start forever love them and speak of them with tears of joy save on to your precious memories its those you must enjoy and with these words that I write know there is a survivor thinking of you tonight © Tina M. Dore Close

	This can't be real / Kelli (Sister) Read >>
	This can't be real / Kelli (Sister) Tonight I just can't seem to get you off of my mind Ry. It still seems unreal that you aren't here anymore. How am I suppose to make it hrough this life without my big brother? 5 years ago you honored me by walking me down the aisle at my wedding, It seems like that was only yesterday. Thank you so much for doing that, it meant so much to me, even though I don't think I ever told you that. YOU meant so much to me. You always will. I miss you RyRy. Close

	tribute / Scott Rennard (former employer ) Read >>
	tribute / Scott Rennard (former employer ) I was fortunate enough to know Ryan and his brother Josh for a short time and experienced what great people both of them were in life. Always striving to be better, always helping others, always with a smile. Ryan will be missed and always remembered. Close

	Morning Light / Kelli (Sister) Read >>
	Morning Light / Kelli (Sister) I don’t know why you left us Why you had to go All I know is that I am left here Trying to fill this empty void I loved you everyday You were my best friend It is so hard here without you Trying to pretend That everythings okay That my life is still the same Why’d you have to take your life? Am I the one to blame? Did you really feel that alone? If only you had told me I would have let you know Just how much I love you That you didn’t need to go I would have held your hand And helped you Make it through that night Things may have seemed so different In the morning light Close

	Thinking of dear Ryan / Jane Einarson (I care ) Read >>
	Thinking of dear Ryan / Jane Einarson (I care ) I am so very sorry for your pain and heartache with your loss of Ryan. He is such a wonderful looking young man. Sadly, I am on this journey with you. I lost my dear Matthew to suicide on December 1/03. Our loved ones will never be forgotten. I will keep you all in my thoughts & heart. Blessings & care. xoxoxox Jane- Matthew's Mom http://matthew-einarson.memory-of.com Close

	MY CHILD / SELMA FLYNN BOBBO.MERORY-OF.COM (FRIEND) Read >>
	MY CHILD / SELMA FLYNN BOBBO.MERORY-OF.COM (FRIEND) "MY child On the day God took you I thought that I would die I wondered where the time went? I asked alot of whys?? With people all around me I felt alone inside From all their words of comfort, I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming That I'd wake and find you here, I thought "This can't be happening." As I wiped another tear. On the day that you were laid to rest My heart broke yet again, I wondered if the pain would end, But mostly, I wondered when?? It's hard to be without you, At times the days seem long, Sometimes I just sit crying, When there's really nothing wrong. I wish we'd had more time, Before your life was done. I hope your resting peacefully, My precious child, Close

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This memorial website was created by Kelli Bourgeous on 10/28/2005.
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Josh, Liz and Ry

This was the first/last time all of us went out together before Josh became sick

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	John C. Smith lit a candle on 10/26/2009: "I remember being a Grandma Bourgeous' house the night Ryan was born. He is special to my family"

	Brooklynn lit a candle on 10/02/2009: "i love and miss you and baxter and josh and you and baxter josh."

	Josh lit a candle on 09/27/2009: "i love u"

	Brooklynn lit a candle on 09/26/2009: "i miss u and baxter and josh."

	Mom lit a candle on 09/26/2009: "4 years ago today u went up to heaven, We all miss u and love u. kisses and hugs Love mom."

	Mom lit a candle on 08/20/2009: "To mu my sweet RyRy all my love I never had time to say goodbye to you I wish u could see Brooklynn going to 2nd grade."

	Kelli lit a candle on 04/27/2009: "Hey Big Brother! Happy Birthday! Still miss you everyday"

	MOM lit a candle on 04/27/2009: "Happy Birthday U sweet angel I miss U so much french silk pie tonight. Love and Kisses"

	Mom lit a candle on 03/18/2009: "Ry u were supose to take care of me. I miss u and Hoot so much sometimes I can hardly stand it. Love forever ."

	Jenny lit a candle on 02/10/2009: "Thinking of you.....U boys are deeply missed everyday. xox"

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